From what I've seen it's the magical 'friction modifiers' they used to replace the zinc they removed due to EPA regs, and it can even happen with conventional oil in some cases. The stuff is now TOO slippery and the OWCs used on these starter drives hate that stuff. I personally think some of the syn technology is slipping into standard non-syn oils now but don't tell anybody that. It could explain how I can go much further in the OCIs that I used to on my cars, the oil just never seems to burn like it used to.
Just for the record, I use cheap crap Walmart Supertech conventional oil in all my cars and now up to 9000 miles OCI now with zero problems. That ain't normal, at least it used to not be.
Use motorcycle specific JASO rated oils like the Valvoline mentioned, it still has some zinc in it but you'll pay the price, zinc oils went WAY up in price to forestall its' use in cars. EPA only allowed for small amounts of the zinc for 'specialty applications', why the bikes can still use it.
OP listen to your bud in this case. FYI, I have the same Walmart conventional oil in straight 30 weight in my '77 CB550F and it works fine. Getting hard to find that weight now though, it is no longer stocked on the shelves.
The slicker syn oil can definitely mess with your starter drive if it is right on the edge of not working, they don't tolerate much real wear at all before they begin to slip anyway.